LGBTQ+ EXJW - Healing, Understanding & Thriving Await!

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Growing up as an LGBTQ Jehovah's Witness is an emotionally challenging experience due to the conflict between your natural sexual orientation or gender identity and the religious beliefs and teachings of the Jehovah's Witness cult. 

They judged you for who you are, for being LGBTQ. 

You can equate it to judging someone negatively for other natural genetic and epigenetic traits such as height, eye color or tone of skin. You are labeled as an ‘abomination’ because of your orientation, because of which gender you are attracted to.

LGBT support and counseling. We understand you experienced a unique set of challenges.  

You are understood and warmly welcomed here into your journey of freedom and empowerment. 

Here are 9 emotional ramifications for born in Jehovah’s Witnesses:

 Internalized Homophobia: 

Jehovah's Witnesses are known for their strict stance against homosexuality, considering it a sin. Growing up in such an environment can lead to internalized homophobia, where individuals may feel guilt, shame, or self-hatred about their sexual orientation.

 Isolation: 

Coming to terms with being gay can be isolating, especially when one is part of a religious community that condemns same-sex relationships. Jehovah's Witnesses often discourage close relationships with non-believers, which can further isolate LGBTQ+ individuals.

Rejection by Family and Community:

 Jehovah's Witnesses have a strong sense of community, and many members are deeply committed to their faith. Coming out as gay may lead to rejection by family members and fellow congregants, causing profound emotional pain and a sense of loss.

Mental Health Struggles: 

The emotional distress of hiding one's true self, experiencing rejection, and struggling with internal conflict can lead to mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts.

Suppression of Identity: 

LGBTQ+ individuals in this situation often feel compelled to suppress their true identities in order to conform to Jehovah’s Witness expectations. This suppression  leads to a lack of self-acceptance and can lead to in-authenticity in other areas of life.

 Fear of Consequences: 

Fear of being disfellowshipped (excommunicated) or shunned by the Jehovah's Witness community can lead to constant anxiety and stress. This fear can extend to concerns about losing social support, including friends and family, which can have serious emotional consequences.

Grief and Loss: 

The conflict between one's sexual orientation and religious beliefs can lead to a sense of grief and loss, as individuals may feel that they have to choose between their faith and their identity, leading to a rupture in their sense of self.

Escaping the Faith: 

Some LGBTQ+ Jehovah's Witnesses ultimately decide to leave the faith in order to live authentically as their true selves. While this can be liberating, it can also come with feelings of loss, as they often lose their entire social support network within the religious community.

The experience of growing up LGBTQ as a Jehovah's Witness has long-lasting effects on mental health, self-esteem, and overall well-being. It's important to recognize that feelings of guilt about being gay are not inherent or natural; they are a result of the homophobic indoctrination of the Jehovah’s witness sect. 

Overcoming this guilt is a complex and ongoing process. Many LGBTQ+ individuals find support through EXJW therapy to teach them how to develop a more positive sense of self while navigating these emotions.